Love Lowe Loveee ..N the Drama behind it!

Love - everyone wants it, everyone simply adores it, but everyone fights it, everyone loathes it. New story...yet the same ol’ story. 

So you wonder – why all this drama?? I have a theory. You think you know it all - you know how you like your coffee...you know you like the color purple...you know you definitely have to have that red Ferrari, you know the kind of ass you like on a woman, you know WHAT you want from life, from your lover, your girlfriend/boyfriend, your best friend! Cos, you’ve got it all figured out – UNTIL, the unexpected happens, until you feel like a punching bag hit you from behind...when you just turned your back. That is the instant when you realise – that maybe, just maybe you don’t know it all. 

I, for one, actually don’t know it all (yes, a lot of my friends will take pride in my accepting that!!). Maybe my convictions are merely the result of my conditioning. Once that fact is known, maybe I don’t need to live life as a book of rules. And somehow, it’s perfectly ok – not to know sometimes.

I’m not the only one with so many ‘maybes’. We all have them. Coming back to love...Relationships – maybe they work out, maybe they don’t. Who really knows? Two people who are together – break up and they make up. On again!! Off again!! And yet the same two people have electrifying chemistry. The book of rules insists that it isn’t for keeps, that it’s a no-win. The fact that they get back together each time, possibly says it’s meant to be. Is it out of habit that they get back together, do the imperfections keep them apart or are they really not compatible? None of the above! And hopefully so! Cos, they get back together out of joy & the imperfections are what it make it real. This holds true mostly when the two people share the same core...what they are from inside. The variations in the exterior in fact add spice. Gosh! How boring it’d be if they were clones.

When this happens you see it for what it is, the unclear, imperfect picture – and you still want it for exactly what it is. I guess, there are no two perfect people...there’s only a perfect fit (: